| on how to salvage a second date or I
congratulate her on discovering that he wasn't worth another
chance.
Many times though the problem lies with my client not
understanding the purpose of a first date. Too often women
(and men) concentrate on such things has compatibility,
attraction and past relationship history. All of these
things are important but not for a first encounter. They are
too in-depth for a casual get-to-know-you conversation. The
only thing a woman really needs to be concerned with is
conveying her femininity.
This is the easiest and most reliable way toward making a
good first impression. The three keys to a great first date
are; wear a dress, smile often and allow him to speak first
at the start of the date. Those three things will make him
feel masculine and he will naturally find you more
attractive because the first date is about being a girl, not
revealing everything about yourself.
If those suggestions seem silly or sexist then I am afraid
you don't understand men. Men like women in dresses because
it radiates softness making a man want to hold and cuddle
her. Smiling at him always makes him feel more attractive.
Letting him speak first conveys respect which is every man's
greatest desire, even more than being loved.
Show him that you have the ability to be the woman he has
fantasized about and he will beg you for another date Once
you have gone out 3 or more times then you are free to let
him get to know you has an individual. Since you have shown
him that you are every bit a woman, he will be much more
motivated to get to know you as a person.
About The Author
Bob Grant, "The Relationship Doctor," is regarded as one of the leading relationship experts on the internet. His newest book, "The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave," reveals how any woman can transfor her relationships, regardless of her circumstances.
Copyright by Bob Grant, L.P.C. 2006 All rights reserved. One time reprinting rights are given in conjunction to article city's policy.
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