There is nothing more painful than a non-reciprocal relationship. I know I've been there too. If you aren't careful, it can really crush any self-esteem you may have.
So why does this happen
Well, a lot of us bought into the whole Disney fairytale dream of a prince/princess. Yada. Yada. Yada. And so | | we seem to rush a lot of our relationships because we want to get to the fairytale ending. We want love. We want romance. We want the storybook finale. So its obvious right We've got to stop this type of thinking. We're shooting our own selves in the foot.
And while I'm not saying this is the case all of the time -- there are commitment phobic men out there for sure! I am saying that sometimes men are so fearful of putting a title on things because we want to marry them right after 5 great dates.
Back to the question....Why Doesn't He Love Me
Well there could be a variety of factors going on.
1. He does love you, but doesn't want to commit right now.
2. He doesn't know what love feels like, you've got to give him more time.
3. He has a life plan and while spending time with you fits in it -- mandatory relationship talks does not!
4. Your pushing too hard and he's scared. OR...he is seeing other women and knows better than to suck you into his web of lies.
I know what you're saying..."which answer applies to me" Well, that is difficult for me to say -- you are going to have to dig deep and listen to your own instincts. Because I think you already know the answer. But if you need verification...I always recommend that you go to the source.
Much Success!
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Lisa Angelettie, GirlShrink
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This article was posted on September 18, 2006 |
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