If youre planning a wedding or planning on being in one, then the question of wedding speeches is bound to come up.
Who gives the speeches
Well, this is really up to the couple thats getting married, but there seems to be a normal list of people that are expected to say something.
The wedding party | | usually has the most members talking about the bride or the groom. The Best Man and Matron or Maid of Honor are the ones that will be giving short speeches before dinner in most cases. Other members of the party can also speak if the couple chooses.
The father of the bride usually gives a speech to the guests, thanking them for coming as well as saying a word or two to the groom. The couple themselves may also want to talk to the guests, giving them thanks and their love.
Of course, the reception isnt the only place for speeches. Many times, the wedding rehearsal has one or two of the couples parents speaking as well.
As many people as the couple wants can speak, but what if youre the one thats asked
Before you stand up
If youre asked to give a speech, no doubt youre nervous and at a loss for what to say. The best advice is to keep your speech short and simple, so that your nerves dont have time to take over and so that your creativity isnt sapped.
Make a list of all of the things that you admire and love about the couple or half of the couple. If youve been friends for a while, you may want to include a joke or a story. The best advice is to keep the story clean thoughtheir parents may not want to know what theyve done.
Talk about the person and then end with some sort of revelation or note of congratulation. Raise your glass and toast the couple. Its really as easy as that.
If youre afraid that youll become nervous, make sure that you rehearse the speech often, writing it well in advance. Or you can just focus on your friend as you give the speech and avoid making eye contact out into the reception crowd.
Speeches are a wonderful way to give thanks to the guest and to members of the new couple. Use your heart as a guide, and youre sure to get it right.
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This article was posted on December 19, 2005 |
| | article was posted on December 19, 2005 |
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