I feel upset every time I hear someone giving counter productive and ridiculous advice about marriage. I dont claim to be an expert on marriage, but I can still tell if the advice Im hearing is good information or pure nonsense. Marriage advice is available to those who need it, but sadly, a lot of it | | is no good. Even the most qualified professional can give tainted marriage advice because they may have their own agenda.
A friend of mine is pretty much at the end of her marriage. Shes very devoted to her religious roots, and has made every effort to save her marriage. The problem is that all the marriage advice and counseling that she has received from different people for over four years has not helped her marriage. I find myself getting upset whenever she shares the marriage advice she has received with me.
If you belong to a church, you should probably go to your pastor or priest for marriage advice. However, you still have to consider the source, even if these people can be great sources for advice and counseling. You see, unless someone is in danger, they will never tell you that perhaps the entire affair was a mistake to begin with.
It is quite obvious to me that my friend is in a hopeless situation, but her pastor will not tell her this. The marriage advice he gives will urge her to remain with her husband, unless her life is threatened.
What Im trying to say is that you should take marriage advice and counseling from more than one source. Move on if you dont like what you are hearing. If you find someone who tells you that a wife should bow down and be miserable for the sake of her husband, then that person is not seeing both sides.
And if a woman counselor seems to be bitter towards men in general, you are going to see this in the advice on marriage she gives. Try to think clearly about what someone is saying to you no matter how miserable you may be.
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This article was posted on December 04, 2006 |
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