I've always loved the saying, "Fortune favors the bold." I believe it was originally to attributed Julius Caesar, but it probably predates even him. There's another version of it I like even better, for dating purposes, and I heard this one from Brian Tracey: "Act boldly and unseen forces will come to | | your aid."
In my experience, both of these statements are absolutely true. Whenever I've taken bold action, I've gotten big results. But why does this happen... and how does it apply to succeeding with dating beautiful, attractive women
Usually I don't care about "why" something works, only that it does. But, there is value at times in getting into the "why" because it allows you to apply the "why" to other areas, and to come up with even more powerful ideas.
Bold action, by its nature tends to attract attention. And no matter how bright and smart you are, you simply cannot succeed in life without the aid of others. The quality of boldness is very attractive. Patton had it 100% right when he said, "America loves a winner." One of the big qualities of winners is bold action, and people are attracted to winners. Women are interested in dating winners.
When you start doing a lot of bold things, you attract people who want to be a part of what you're doing. Why Because few people act boldly, and they want to live vicariously through those who do. Think about the guy you knew who boldly went up to women. Every other guy wanted to hang around with him because he had "balls." And more often than not, women responded very well to him, and he got his outcome. Why Because boldness is attractive. This is a tremendous concept to get for your dating life.
Now, don't confuse boldness with stupidity. I've known guys who did stupid things boldly--and gotten the results they deserve. Bold action should only be taken with good preparation backed up by tested, proven knowledge. But, when you do study the area you want to apply action to, in this case dating, when you prepare diligently, you must act boldly and decisively when the opportunity presents itself. And the more bold action you take, the more opportunity will come your way... it's an amazing "self feeding" mechanism.
So, prepare diligently, and act boldly-- unseen forces will come to your aid... bearing desirable women, of course!
About The Author
John Alanis, "The King of Let 'em Come to You", is author of the "Women Approach You" system at http://www.womenapproachyou.com. His blog is at http://www.johnalanis.com.
This article was posted on January 30, 2006 |
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